180. All were called by different names than they had at first, except the one of whom it is written: "And his wife's name was Mehetabel, daughter of Matred, daughter of Mezehab" (Beresheet 36:39). THAT IS THE SECRET OF THE NAME OF NUMERICAL VALUE OF 45 THAT RENEWS THE MALE AND FEMALE REFERRED TO BY HADAR AND MEHETABEL. Why WAS HE NOT CALLED BY A DIFFERENT NAME? Because these, HADAR AND MEHETABEL, were not lost like the rest OF THE SEVEN KINGS, because they were male and female. This is similar to the palm tree that does not bear fruit unless you have planted a male and female stock. Therefore, now that we found them to be male and female, the term death was not mentioned in relation to them as with the rest. They lived, but they were not COMPLETELY secure until they acquired the likeness of a man. When they were finally established with a human countenance, they returned to exist in an alternate state and were settled.
180. וְכֻלְּהוּ אִתְקְרוּן בִּשְׁמָהָן אַחֲרָנִין מִן קַדְמָאִין, בַּר הַהוּא דִּכְתִּיב בֵּיהּ, וְשֵׁם אִשְׁתּוֹ מְהֵיטַבְאֵל בַּת מַטְרֵד בַּת מֵי זָהָב. מ"ט. מִשּׁוּם דְּהָנֵי לָא אִתְבְּטָלוּ כִּשְׁאַר אַחֲרָנִין. מִשּׁוּם דַּהֲוָה דְּכַר וְנוּקְבָּא. כְּהַאי תְּמָרָא, דְּלָא סַלְּקָא אֶלָּא דְּכַר וְנוּקְבָּא. ובג"כ הַשְׁתָּא דְּאִשְׁתְּכָחוּ דְּכַר וְנוּקְבָּא, לָא כְּתִיב בְּהוּ מִיתָה כְּאַחֲרָנִין, וְאִתְקְיָימוּ. אֲבָל לָא אִתְיָשָׁבוּ, עַד דְּאִתְתְּקַן דִּיּוּקְנָא דְּאָדָם, וְכֵיוָן דְּאִתְתְּקַן דִּיּוּקְנָא דְּאָדָם, אִתְחֲזָרוּ וְאִתְקְיָימוּ בְּקִיּוּמָא אַחֲרָא, וְאִתְיְישָבוּ.
316. None of them lasted, and yet do not say they ceased to exist. It is simply that they did not endure in that kingdom OF JUDGMENT until this last one of all was roused and awakened and spread out, as it is written: "And Hadar reigned in his place" (Ibid. 39). Who is Hadar? It is supernal Chesed. "And the name of his city was Pa'u" (Ibid.). What is Pa'u? It is that through him a man cries (Heb. po'e), who merits the Holy Spirit. "IRO (ENG. 'HIS CITY')" IS DERIVED FROM HIT'ORERUT (ENG. 'REVIVAL'). "And the name of his wife was Mehetabel" (Ibid.): at this point, they were soothed by each other. MALCHUT is called his wife, something that is not written by them all - "THE NAME OF HIS WIFE."
316. וְכֻלְּהוּ לָא אִתְקָיָימוּ, לָא תֵּימָא דְּאִתְבָּטָלוּ, אֶלָּא דְּלָא אִתְקָיָימוּ בְּהַהוּא מַלְכוּ, עַד דְּאִתְּעַר וְאִתְפָּשַּׁט הַאי בַּתְרָאָה מְכֻּלְּהוּ, דִּכְתִּיב וַיִּמְלוֹךְ תַחְתָּיו הֲדַר. מַאי הֲדַר. חֶסֶד עִלָּאָה. וְשֵׁם עִירוֹ פָּעוּ, מַאי פָּעוּ. בְּהַאי פָּעִי בַּר נָשׁ דְּזָכֵי לְרוּחָא דְּקוּדְשָׁא וְשֵׁם אִשְׁתּוֹ מְהֵיטַבְאֵל, בְּכָאן אִתְבְּסָמוּ דָּא בְּדָא, וְאִתְקְרֵי אִשְׁתּוֹ, מַה דְּלָא כְּתִיב בְּכֻלְּהוּ.
317. Mehetabel INDICATES improving each other, MALE AND FEMALE. ZEIR ANPIN IS THE SECRET OF YUD HEI VAV HEI FULLY SPELLED WITH ALEPH'S WHICH NUMERICALLY AMOUNT TO 45 AND THE FEMALE, THE SECRET OF YUD HEI VAV HEI, FULLY SPELLED WITH HEI'S, WHICH IS NUMERICALLY 52. AND MEHETABEL NUMERICALLY AMOUNTS TO 45 PLUS 52. "Daughter of Matred" (Ibid.), MEANING THAT DUE TO THE constructions WITHIN HER from the side of Gvurah, MATRED IS DERIVED FROM TIRDUT (ENG. 'INCONVENIENCE'). "DAUGHTER OF Mezehab" (lit. 'golden waters') (Ibid.), meaning that golden waters were firmly established and involved one in the other, Mercy and Judgment. SINCE GOLD INDICATES JUDGMENT, THAT IS THE ILLUMINATION OF CHOCHMAH. WATERS IS THE SECRET OF CHASSADIM. THEY ARE INCLUDED TOGETHER. Here the woman was joined and the man, Mehetabel with Hadar.
317. מְהֵיטַבְאֵל, אִתְבַּסְמוּתָא דְּדָא בְּדָא. בַּת מַטְרֵד, תִּקּוּנִין דְּמִסְּטַר גְּבוּרָה. בַּת מֵי זָהָב, אִתְבְּסָמוּ וְאִתְכְּלִילוּ דָּא בְּדָא, מֵי זָהָב: רַחֲמֵי וְדִינָא. כָּאן אִתְדַּבְּקוּ אִתְּתָא בִּדְכוּרָא.