112. This is the meaning of, "As we have heard, so have we seen..." (Ibid. 9), because none survived, but she, MALCHUT, survives now that the male dwelt with her, as it is written, "and Hadar reigned in his place, and the name of his city was Pa'u; and his wife's name was Mehitavel, daughter of Matred, daughter of Mezehab" (Beresheet 36:39); gold water certainly, as we explained in the Idra.
112. הה"ד, כַּאֲשֶׁר שָׁמַעְנוּ כֵּן רָאִינוּ וְגוֹ,' דְּהָא כֻּלְּהוּ לָא אִתְקְיָימוּ, וְהִיא אִתְקַיְּימַת הַשְׁתָּא, בְּסִטְרָא דִּדְכוּרָא, דְּשַׁרְיָא עִמָּהּ. הה"ד, וַיִּמְלוֹךְ תַחְתָּיו הֲדַר וְשֵׁם עִירוֹ פָּעוּ וְשֵׁם אִשְׁתּוֹ מְהֵיטַבְאֵל בַּת מַטְרֵד בַּת מֵי זָהָב. מֵי זָהָב וַדַּאי כְּמָה דְּאוֹקִימְנָא בְּאִדָרָא.
113. In the Agadah book of Rav Hamnuna Saba we learned that, "Hadar reigned in his place." Hadar surely, NAMELY YESOD THAT IS CALLED THE TREE HADAR, as it is written, "the fruit of the tree hadar" (Vayikra 23:40), IN WHICH MALCHUT IS CALLED FRUIT AND YESOD THE TREE HADAR; "and his wife's name was Mehitavel" as in "branches of palm trees" (Ibid.), WHICH IS YESOD AND WHICH IS NAMED IN THE PLURAL "PALM TREES" BECAUSE it is written, "The righteous man flourishes like the palm tree" (Tehilim 92:13), WHICH MEANS HE DOES NOT FLOURISH WITHOUT THE FEMALE, because THE PALM TREE is both male and female. HENCE IT SAYS OF HIM, "AND HIS WIFE'S NAME WAS MEHITAVEL." This MALCHUT is called "the daughter of Matred," WHICH MEANS SHE IS a daughter to that place everyone is busy (Heb. trudim) attaining, which is called a father, NAMELY CHOCHMAH. It is also written, "Man cannot know its price; nor is it found in the land of the living" (Iyov 28:13), SINCE EVERYONE IS BUSY ATTAINING IT. According to another explanation, she is a daughter to mother, WHO IS BINAH, from whose aspect Judgments rise that disturb (Heb. matridim) everyone. THIS IS WHY SHE IS CALLED "THE DAUGHTER OF MATRED." She is "the daughter of Mezehab (lit. 'gold water')," BECAUSE SHE is fed from both aspects that radiate in two manners, with Chesed and with Judgments, THAT IS, FROM RIGHT AND LEFT, THE RIGHT BEING CHESED AND CALLED WATER, AND LEFT THE SECRET OF CHOCHMAH CALLED GOLD. HENCE THE GOLD WATER.
113. בְּסִפְרָא דְּאַגַּדְתָּא דְּרַב הַמְנוּנָא סָבָא אִתְּמַר, וַיִּמְלוֹךְ תַחְתָּיו הֲדַר. הֲדַר וַדַּאי, כד"א, פְּרִי עֵץ הָדָר. וְשֵׁם אִשְׁתּוֹ מְהֵיטַבְאֵל, כד"א כַּפּוֹת תְּמָרִים. וּכְתִיב, צַדִּיק כַּתָּמָר יִפְרָח, דְּאִיהִי דְּכַר וְנוּקְבָּא. הַאי אִתְקְרִיאַת בַּת מַטְרֵד, בַּת מֵהַהוּא אֲתָר דְּטַרְדִין כֺּלָּא לְאִתְדַּבְּקָא, וְאִקְרֵי אָב. וּכְתִיב לֺֹא יָדַע אֱנוֹשׁ עֶרְכָּהּ וְלֺֹא תִּמָּצֵא בְּאֶרֶץ הַחַיִּים. ד"א, בַּת מֵאִימָּא, דְּמִסִּטְרָהָא מִתְאַחֲדִין דִּינִין, דְּטַרְדִין לְכֺלָּא. בַּת מֵי זָהָב, דְּיָנְקָא בִּתְרֵין אַנְפִּין, דִּנְהִירוּ בִּתְרֵין גַּוְונִין. בְּחֶסֶד וּבְדִינָא.